STOP IT!!!

Stop asking me what ifs... Nobody knows what is going to happen in the future. What ifs are questions that no one can answer. No one can see what is going to happen in the future. Trying to predict what will happen in the future will only make you more distress. Take a step at a time.

I always look forward to what is going to happen tomorrow but i don't expect anything. I don't expect anything good or bad to happen in the future. People always say that the future is a mystery. No one will know what will happen tomorrow. And i never live with expectations for tomorrow. The higher expectations you have, the greater the disappointment. Even if you expect that you will break up tomorrow, it is not going to relieve the hurt and tears you will experience just because you've expected it. You will feel as hurt and you will still cry as much. If you are going face something happy the next day, by expecting it you won't feel as joyful and as surprised.

Just take a step at a time. You have to crawl before walking and walk before running. What is meant to be will be, what is not meant to be will never be yours. Just know that i'm not like her. I'm not gonna give you false hopes. I know what it feels like to be brought up so high and then you fall all of a sudden and crush badly to the ground. If you trust me, stop asking me what ifs.

i won't stop trying...

We will always face barriers. They are there to challenge us. In the midst of the challenge, if we perservere and not give up, we will break down the barrier and grow stronger. If we cannot break it, we can try bypassing it. If eventually, we still can't fight it. At the very least, we've tried our very best. If we give up now without trying, we would regret in the future. By trying, we buy a chance. If we don't even try, we are just destroying all the chances that we have. Eventually, no one knows if we will pull through. If we tried and failed, at least we know we have given our best shot. If we don't even try, we would just live with the regret of not giving it even a shot.

Relationships, all kinds, are never smooth sailing. No matter how close 2 persons can be, barriers will always be present. But it is through these barriers can the relationship grow and strengthen. Don't be afraid. Don't question. Relationships are about taking risks. If you don't take the risks, you'll never know what the ending will be. Let's walk this journey together. Whether or not the road will be bumpy or whether our relationship will be able to withstand the tests. I believe that love can do wonders. As long as we love each other and stay strong, i believe that there is nothing we can't conquer. =)