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- Shu Hui =)
- Simple and easily contented. Monetary gains are nothing more than just things for survival. They are not everything. Passion, compassion, love and determination is what keeps my soul truely alive.
Friday, November 13, 2009
mmm...
i don't get it. what is so wrong or hard to understand about cross marriages or cross relationships? i don't get it. why are you so against it when you always claim that you are so open minded. you just proved that you are not at all. even religious muslims can accept me so why can't you? just because your friend had a bad experience means it would happen to everyone. you say you acknowledge but sometimes it take more than just acknowledging. the thing is it is not just like i'm ok with you two going out. but if you accept and acknowledge means you allow him to come once in a while on family occasions. why are you being so petty? it is not like we expected that we would have malay bfs. it is fated and destined that we met and fell in love. why want to fight something so strong? when it comes to marriage. it is not going to be so easy like i accept it but it also means you take him as a son in law most probably a son and give us blessings. it would mean accepting his family also. like can you be less naive and see where my dear big sister is coming from. like heeeelllloooo... so what if we are of different skin colour, culture or background. doesn't make us that different. we are still humans came out from our mama's womb after around 7 or 9 months stay. the differences are based on your own definition and perception. first of all, this differences might actually not even exist in reality and it is only your thoughts. so???? the point is why not give him a chance and yourself a chance to know each other better? i think personality is definitely more important than skin colour. trust me... i've seen it before. if you really love us as a mother, you should want us to be able to find our own happiness like how you found your's. so what if that person is of a different skin colour. race is defined by our freaking government based on our very fantastic thing called ic, the pink card. personality and love beats all of that. so... i see maybe you can stop behaving in such a naive and childish and petty manner and WAKE UP!!!! for goodness sake.
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Hey shu hui. I support what you said. :) Love has no boundaries and it is up to you to decide whether you want to pursue it (which in this case, you do). You don't really need to care what other people thinks because it is YOUR life and I think your mother should not oppose this relationship because she does not even know anything about your and your bf. I know that yours is not a conventional relationship but the one who opposes you also didn't have one. I am quite sure that she also wanted her family's blessings when she married your father. Moreover we are at the 21st century where there are so many cases of cross relationship happening nowadays. So jiayou in your relationship! :)
Life is never a bed of roses and it will get increasingly difficult and complex. Nobody said growing up is easy. Nobody said having relationship is a breeze. But what doesn't kill us will make us stronger. :)
Though i don't know who you are and the last phrase does sound super familiar coz i always use this phrase. what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. thank you. =)
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